IVF Round 2

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At the beginning of last month we started our second round on In-vitro Fertilization. (you can read about our first round here).  Things were very different the second time around. I thought I was prepared for the process, but I’ve learned you’re never fully prepared. The Meds were different, the procedures were different and the emotional struggles were different.
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This time around the shots didn’t last as long but I had 4 (sometimes 5) a day. My tummy got pretty bruised and so did my arms from all the blood draws. I didn’t bruise at all last time, so that was new.

After injecting all the drugs for a few weeks my ovaries were the size of softballs filled with all those little eggies. I was so excited for the egg retrieval surgery this time (last time I was so nervous!). They retrieved 29 eggs during the surgery, 17 fertilized and 4 made it to the stage of a blastocyst on day 5. 

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The day of egg transfer!
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We transferred two beautiful eggs and were able to freeze two of them.
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Charlie is so great at cuddling and keeping me company during bed rest and the 10 day wait to find out if they stuck. We love him so much!
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At the end of the 10 days we found out we were pregnant! We were SO UNBELIEVABLY HAPPY! I was on cloud nine for days. I went to target and looked at baby stuff for fun because before walking by that section had always made me cry. I bought pregnancy books and pinned lots of things on pinterest. We told both of our families and our closest friends. 
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This was the first of our bump pictures.

We found out only two short weeks after our positive pregnancy test that I was having a miscarriage. It was beyond devastating. We went from such happiness to such sorrow so quickly.

Sometimes I don’t know how much more heartbreak I can take. We loved this little baby so much. We would give ANYTHING (and we literally mean it) to be parents.

Life is SO hard sometimes. All we can do is grieve and mourn this loss, pick ourselves up and move forward. It is so hard to do some days, but we will never stop fighting for our family. We have felt the prayers of so many through this journey and I know I could not go through this struggle without my Savior Jesus Christ.

October is Infant and Pregnancy Loss Awareness Month. 1 in 4 women experience infant or pregnancy loss. That is a staggeringly high number. Remember that there are many women out there who go through this struggle silently. So be kind to everyone, know matter their circumstance. You never know what they have been through. 

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  1. Danielle and Trev on October 12, 2015 at 12:51 am

    Oh girl. I am so, so sorry to hear it. Sending all my love. Been thinking of you. Infertility is the heaviest burden.

  2. Brooke @ Silver Lining on October 12, 2015 at 3:54 am

    Sending lots of love your way Elise! Hugs and prayers for you during this tough time. I'm so sorry for your loss.

  3. Unknown on October 12, 2015 at 2:11 pm

    So sorry for your loss, sweet Elise. Sending prayers for you and your husband. You are superwoman.

  4. Marsa on October 12, 2015 at 4:20 pm

    Love you Elise! I'm so sorry to hear about that 🙁 it breaks my heart. Praying for you guys!

  5. Ashley Ziegler on October 12, 2015 at 6:50 pm

    I'm so sorry Elise!! 🙁 I cannot imagine what you must be going through. I was so happy and excited reading this, only to have my heart saddened too. My prayers are with you at this time!

  6. the Florkens on October 12, 2015 at 7:24 pm

    I'm so sorry for your loss. While I do not know how infertility feels, I do know how it feels to suffer a miscarriage and I would not wish that upon anyone. It can be devastating. If you need anyone to reach out to, please don't hesitate to drop me a line. I'll be happy to listen and (virtually) hold your hand! Hang in there. -Katewww.theflorkens.com

  7. Rachel Gault on October 12, 2015 at 8:25 pm

    I'm so sorry 🙁 Sending positive vibes and lots of love your way!

  8. Unknown on October 13, 2015 at 3:35 am

    I'm so sorry for your loss, this post is a roller coaster of emotions and I'm weeping for you. I will be praying for your continued journey, and sending hugs and baby dust from afar <3

  9. Unknown on October 13, 2015 at 7:48 pm

    Your time will come… believe it with all your heart and never give up! Praying for you.

  10. Mallory on October 14, 2015 at 1:41 am

    My heart just aches for you guys! Keeping you in my prayers

  11. Kaylee Coles on November 16, 2015 at 9:34 pm

    This post made my heart ache. I have two aunts who struggled with infertility and both eventually had kids (one though adoption, one through IVF). I will keep you in my prayers!

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